College

“College” is the most important phase of education and life.

It’s the place where you ‘grow-up’, actually.

You enter the college as an amateur teenager and exit as ‘grown-up’, matured person.
It’s the place, where you are taught important lessons of class and life. There are too many things taught, too many choices and chances offered. And you are free to decide the choices you make, the chances you take and lessons you want to learn for your sake.

It’s the flexible, transitional, transforming, attracting, distracting phase of life and most confusing too.

Confusion - The dangerous syndrome which can be seen in almost every youngster.

Right from the initial phase of college, you are being offered Confusing options.
• Selection of subjects ( Science, Arts, Commerce, Management, Computers, Technical, Industrial and etc )
• Selection of college ( Top colleges, Best colleges, good colleges and any college)
• Selection of location ( Near home, In home town, In metro, In big city or anywhere in world)

And after entering the college, just when you start to settle down and breathe normally, you’ll be bombarded again with a lot of attractions/distractions.

 Mobiles (one of the important, useful and dangerous invention by human).
 Computers and computer games.
 Internet (4th Basic need of youngster).
 Chatting, online and offline.
 Addictions (Differs from person to person).
 Class bunks, mass bunks, proxies.
 Love/s, like/s, crushes, infatuations and after this stage, Break-ups, make-ups, patch-ups.
 And different categories of friends with the opposite gender- just friends, just good friends, boyfriend/girlfriend and ex-es.
 Unknown calls, unknown messages, unknown friend requests and unknown mails.
 And then comes the toughest part, “EXAMS”. Internals, quizzes, surprise tests, assignments and Externals.

Ufffff!!! So many things….

The teenager who is, not-20 not-15, the not-adult not-kid, the not-mature not-innocent human being has to surpass all these attractions/distractions and compulsions to become a responsible and mature citizen.

And he/she has to decide on his/her own or with the help of others, which ways will take him higher and which will take him the opposite way.

And that’s really really tough task and by the time you come to a conclusion, the train of time would have just left your station.

Don’t regret if your present has not shaped as you wanted, may be your Destiny is the Destination where you are right now. Everything happens for a reason.

And maybe, the place where you are right-now is better than where you wanted-to-be.